If asked, most mothers or fathers would probably agree that losing a child is the most traumatic experience any parent could go through. And, I suspect that if one of those same people went really deep emotionally they would struggle with what to do when a child goes away.
“You don’t know what a person is going through unless they tell you so don’t pretend to know the origin of their pain.”
How Long is too long to Grieve the Death of Somebody You Love? . When that time comes, you may think that you can’t get through it, until you wake up one morning to find that your life was destined to go on.
I can honestly say that more often than not, my pain resulted in another person’s gain. And let me be clear, these gains came to fruition only by the grace of God.